Why the Rise of Electronic Age Is Hurting Children More Than Anything Else?

Emily Wang, 20, October, 2023

A baby with wide, inquisitive eyes holds a smartphone, taking a selfie of his own. Above the phone, a cute, puzzled brain, questioning baby's action.
A baby holding a smartphone, taking a selfie of his own. Above the phone, a cute brain questioning baby’s action draw by Emily Wang

Imagine you’re at a bustling city park. Amidst the gentle hum of chattering families and distant laughter, there’s a stark contrast.

A visibly impatient mother hands over her shimmering tablet to her restless child, hoping to buy a moment’s peace. A father, eyebrows furrowed in exasperation, thrusts a smartphone towards his upset daughter, believing it’ll quell her tears.

All around, the sights and sounds of nature beckon, but electronic screens become the immediate pacifiers, drowning out the world beyond.

In the digital cacophony that has become the soundtrack of modern childhood, an essential biological process is at play – one that holds the key to understanding the long-term impact of our tech-centric lifestyles.

Let’s me introduce Neuroplasticity!

——The fascinating capability of our brain to rewire and evolve, debunks the old myth that brain adaptability is limited to the early years. Think of a child’s brain as a bustling city; in its infancy, a maze of roads, intersections, and pathways rapidly form.

Every neuron, akin to a city building, is connected by about 2,500 synapses at birth. These synapses, much like bridges between skyscrapers, amplify in number, reaching a staggering 15,000 per neuron by age three. They serve as bustling highways for electrical and chemical messages, ensuring smooth communication within the neural network. However, as the city matures, certain roads see more traffic, becoming main arteries, while lesser-used routes deteriorate and vanish.

Hand-drawn illustration of a neuron with a cute face in its cell body. The neuron says 'Hi! I am a Neuron!' and has labeled synapse.
Illustration of a neuron with a cute face in its cell body and has labeled synapse at its end. draw by Emily Wang

Similarly, in adulthood, the brain retains only the most frequented connections, shedding almost half of the lesser-used synapses in a process termed ‘synaptic pruning.’ The implications? Repeated immersion in digital realms during these formative years could profoundly influence which neural pathways thrive and which wane, underscoring the paramount importance of mindful tech consumption during childhood.

A more detailed explanation of habits formation and changing, YouTube video by Kurzgesagt – In a Nutshell

Inevitably, when children grow older, they’re even immersed deeper in the digital realm, with American kids aged 8 to 12 spending an astonishing six hours daily on media, excluding academic interactions. This ever-shifting digital landscape, filled with games, texts, and social dynamics, hides a more insidious reality. Research shows a troubling link between children’s exposure to ads—like those for fast food or alcohol—and their positive attitudes towards these products. Let’s see what the kids doing for solving their phone addiction.

Young girl asking for mobile phone by lying in a cute way, post on Twitter, by nena! 𝕏

Looking at what digital media do to teenage child. Drawing from a telling national poll by the C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital at University of Michigan Health, an unsettling picture emerges: the grip of social media on our children’s self-perception. A staggering two-thirds of parents report their kids feeling self-conscious about their appearance. Alarmingly, one in five teens shuns activities, like photo-taking, due to insecurities. Social media, rather than being a safe haven, frequently perpetuates harmful norms.

Video explaining social media and self-esteem for children, YouTube video by Child Mind Institute

Teens end up in relentless races of comparison, chasing ephemeral validations through likes and comments, while battling the shadows of cyberbullying. These digital platforms present meticulously curated highlight reels, portraying lives devoid of flaws or struggles, fostering feelings of inadequacy and alienation in many. For some, this veneer of perfection masks deeper issues, creating dangerous barriers to seeking essential help.

Now, hold tight, mid the glowing screens and incessant notifications, there lies an opportunity for parents to shape the narrative and influence their children’s digital journeys.

While the intricate dance of neurons and synapses in a child’s brain is guided by biology, it is also heavily influenced by their environment. If children see their primary role models – their parents – constantly tethered to devices, it inevitably sets a precedent for their own digital consumption.

However, all is not lost. Becoming a conscientious digital parent doesn’t mean revoking all screen privileges, but rather setting rules for technology use.

With nearly four out of five parents considering themselves as apt tech role models, it’s crucial to walk the talk. By integrating household rules that apply to everyone, such as “No devices during dinner” or “Tech-free Sundays”, families can nurture moments of genuine connection. Parents can also prioritise offline interaction, for instance, exploring the great activities as a family, these shared moments can counterbalance the digital inundation.

Ultimately, it’s about ensuring that amidst the pixels and apps, genuine human connection remains at the heart of it all.